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12 July 2009 @ 02:01 pm
This trip has been random and strange and heartwarming and heartbreaking all at the same time.  I'm still not entirely convinced any of it's been a good idea, nor do I regret any of it.
  • Staying up until 3am while wandering around the city with a new friend talking international politics and media is divine.  I highly recommend it.  It really made me regret not doing it more in university.
  • Sherwood Castle has NO Robin Hood related things in it at all!  There's a Robin Hood statue and RH related things in the gift shop (I bought a hat, of course), but nothing related to RH lore.  
  • I've never gotten as many hugs in a day as I did in Nottingham - every time I came into the room, there'd be a bear hug awaiting me from my aunt who I did not get to spend enough time with.  Generally, there was more love in that house for me than I think I've ever gotten (and I'm certainly not deprived of it at home to begin with).
  • My body cannot handle old houses filled with dust and cobwebs.  My allergies haven't been this bad since I was a little girl.
  • Spending your days by the river really makes you appreciate that "you can never walk into the same river twice" saying people like to throw around.  It's unbelievable how easy it is to waste away a few hours by the riverbend.  And it's heartbreaking to me that we have no rivers running through Toronto.  That just isn't fair.
  • Boat tours with DRUNK Australian Alpaca veterinarians are so much fun.  "WAIT. WAIT. WAIT.  We have a tennis ball?!  And a bucket?!  Let's play tennisbucketball!"  It was probably more fun watching them try to (unsuccessfully) keep the ball from falling overboard than it was them trying to "score".
  • Galway is a beautiful city.  It stole my iPhone, and yet, I loved it.  It's stunningly beautiful.  But very... commercial.  Opposite one of the old churches is a French Connection store.  It's a strange juxtiposition that doesn't really work.  But an afternoon of guitar strumming by the Spanish Arches of the 1700's followed by a Lisa Hannigan gig is sheer bliss.  I should have stayed for both of her shows (she debuted a new one the night after I left).  I was serenaded to by a homeless man though.  He was surprisingly good.
  • I kind of love that a quick 30 min. flight requires a total of 2.5 hours of bus and wait time.
  • I hate how much Islamic TV my dad's been watching while here.
  • Lisa is the loveliest creature I've ever met.  My eskimofriend followed her around town for a little bit and then set up to busk in a place where she knew Lisa would have to walk by.  She played a Lisa song and Lisa and Tomo both saw/hear her.  They called her in before the gig to meet the band.  And Lisa dedicated a song to her that night.  And afterwards, Una arranged for all of us to meet Lisa before she went off to bed near the flat she was staying in - we got pictures and conversation (they bought some violins for the band, and they're heading back to North America/Massey Hall in some capacity this fall) and hugs all around.
  • It's amazing having Mock The Week and 8 out of 10 Cats and QI and Top Gear on an actual TV without having to wait until 3am for an MU link to pop up.
  • I love the way you get all 4 seasons in a day here, and how it changes from one to the other at the drop of a hat
  • I love having lots and lots and lots of tea
  • One of my favorite moments so far: hearing Canada's very own Final Fantasy being played in the Roisin Dubh after the Lisa gig
  • I found "The Strand" of Ireland in Galway and spent a few hours rummaging through their books.  Only walked away with one though (though, I can't be arsed to go upstairs and get the title of it for you)
  • I do not understand my parents' desire to go to malls and shop for things we so easily get in Canada, while bypassing all of the things that are special here in like wool sweaters/scarves, celtic jewelry, Nottingham lace, etc.  Instead, my dad bought a suit.  I can't even remember the last time he wore a suit, and he just spent $300 on two suits in Toronto a few weeks before we left
  • I love all the random relics of castles that litter the countryside and mountains and riverbends and are pretty much everywhere you turn your head.
Mainly, I love traveling alone.  I'm not laid back enough to be dependent on other people for rides or tour guiding.  And I'm too spoiled a child to still be happy letting my parents set the schedule.  I'm a plan-ahead kind of traveller and so many of my plans have gotten mislaid because of emergency heart bypasses (my cousin in law's a surgeon) and cousins who lazy say they'll come by in "the afternoon" only to change their mind and come by the next morning.  My day is "wasted" if I'm at home until 3pm while on vacation.  This is definitely not the Ireland trip I've been dreaming of.  I'll have to come back next summer and do it right, and do it on my own. 

Still though, it's been a great trip.  I'm more zen now than I can ever remember being in the last year or two.  I'm not missing home nearly as much as I thought I would (though I do miss all the lovely company I have at arm's reach in Toronto).  Few more days in Ireland left and I never thought I'd say this but... I'm ready to move on.  For now.

Though, in England/Ireland, I do find it remarkable how easy it is to get the lay of the land.  It helps that all the city centers are so tiny.

Anyways, I hope everyone's doing well.  I skimmed through the friends page and things seem to be fairly alright with everyone?  Jo, I hope the hangover's left you by now.  Kristen, I hope everyone's just overreacting to nothing!  Soph, I hope there's some middle ground to be found (though, your school system still seems completely foreign to me).  Toxica, I hope you're feeling better too (stay away from your cell phone!).  Addey, Esther, I will see you soon and look forward to hearing all your tales in person.

EVERYONE ELSE, I HOPE YOU'RE WELL AND HAPPY AND LOVED.
 
 
srahman24
03 July 2009 @ 03:43 pm
A few people asked for my schedule so here it is:

July 4-6: Nottingham
July 7-14: Dundalk/Dublin (we'll be heading out to Galway and Belfast, but I'm not sure when)
July 15-19: Antwerp (I'll be heading out to Bruges, Ghent, Brussels)
July 20-22: London (Bath on the 21st or 22nd)
July 23-25: Prague
July 26-29: Vienna
July 30-August 1: Budapest
August 2: Gatwick (we're staying near the airport, and probably won't come into London)
August 3: Glasgow (but I'll be in the airport all day)

If anyone wants to meet up for some coffee or drinks or meals or sightseeing, let me know!  E-mail or txt (1-647-282-7427) - keep in mind txts will cost you $0.50 (Canadian), though I'm not sure if the rates are the same for you guys. 

If any of you are travelling then, hope you all have safe, fun trips too!

And now I'm on hiatus ;)

Postcard and bootleg post is still up here.

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srahman24
03 July 2009 @ 12:33 pm
This will be my official going on hiatus post.  July 3 - August 3.  Don't forget about me while I'm gone! 

I will have free net access for most of my trip, but I'm going to try and stay away from livejournal and the internet in general.  I'm going to take a tiny notebook and a journal with me and I'm determined to keep that going.  BUT... I'll be checking my e-mails every few days.  So e-mail me if you really miss me or if something really exciting happens!

ALSO - Does anyone want postcards?  I know, I know, I'm HORRIBLE at holding up my end of the bargain but seriously, I'm determined this time!  I will send them!  I'm screening all comments to this post, so leave me your address (and name!  some of you guys are new and I still haven't quite got a handle on everyone yet).  You can also e-mail it to me at: sl.rahman@gmail.com

And lastly, a parting gift... a bootleg.  My other Frames ones turned  out fine (and I'm getting two pretty promising replacements for the Brest show), so here's a parting gift for you guys: Glen solo circa '95.  It's a little slice of heaven.  Featuring Emmett Tinley!  I had no idea he was going to be part of this show... I actually screamed in the car when his voice first came on over the CD.  I love him.  And him and Glen together?  It's lovely.

So, here you go: Glen @ Mother redcaps, 16/9/95 - Angel at my table, Monument, In this boat together, The auld triangle, Say it to me now, Dolphins, Saved, The dancer, St. Christopher, Revelate, Rise, Neath the beeches, Fame, Red chord

I'll see you all in a month! 

Remember, comments are screened :)

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srahman24
30 June 2009 @ 01:25 am
The latest addition to my list of things to do before I die is to travel with every single one of you someday.

I think we've got things sorted out.  My parents will stay near Heathrow for two nights because they feel more comfortable with a chain hotel (my mom and I have traveled Europe twice staying at little B&Bs but... they're older now, and most of the B&Bs I found don't have elevators and even two flights of stairs for my dad with luggage may not be worth the risk.)  And I'll probably try out my very first pod hotel.  I'm way more excited than I should be considering the room looks like this.

So that's out of the way.  But in the middle of planning this I'm realizing just exactly why we haven't taken a family vacation in 13 years.  My dad is freakin' impossible.  He'll drive 3 hours each way on a regular old Saturday to go fishing, but my 4 hour trip to see the Cliffs of Moher is too much "just for some rocks".  DUDE:


Those aren't just rocks!  I want to plan a picnic for when we go.  Oh yeah, we're definitely still going.  4 hours driving in the Irish countryside really isn't that bad.  And we've got 4 drivers who can split the driving time.  So really, it's only like 1 hour a person. 

So that'll take up 1 day.  Then we'll do Newry (there's an ice cream store there my uncle loves), Belfast and the Giant's Causeway in another day.  And my mom wanted to go to Galway, so I'm trying to figure that out too.  I might surprise her with a room at a B&B so that we can spend some more time there (without my boring father) the day after we see the Cliffs.

Anyone else got ideas on things to do in the Northern part of Ireland?  I'll be based in Dundalk, most of the time.

P.S. My tax return arrived today!  Woo hoo!  I'm unbelievably happy.  I was expecting about half this much.

P.P.S. That Murray Wawrinka (or however you spell it) game today was so good!  Murray reminded me of young Andre Agassi with some of those baseline winners.  And then I'll get Roddick/Hewitt on Wednesday - I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE when these two play against one another.  I just found my I heart Roddick t-shirt too, so that's perfect timing. 


 
 
srahman24
29 June 2009 @ 02:28 am
I'm sorry for posting without even checking the f-list but I need a good rant.

We hit a major roadblock in our Europe plans.  My people in London?  THEY FUCKING BAILED ON US. 

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We talked to them three weeks ago, and again last week, and they said everything would be fine.  They were going to leave us an extra set of keys and everything.

Now... "you can spend as much time with us as you want, stay for dinner even, but I think you should get a B&B for the nights".  WTF.  Who does that? 

So now my parents have to figure out if it's even worth it to come to London - it's really expensive to get a room in the city.  They could stay by the airport for one night, and get half a day to wander around London.  I found a Holiday Inn room for about $70 (Canadian).

And then... of course... I'm sort of screwed.  Michelle and I didn't budget for 3 nights in a hotel in London!  I found a cheap hotel that kind of looks like it'll be an adventure (a clean and bed bug free adventure, but still an adventure in a room about the size of a closet).  My parents feel massively guilty (even though it's not their fault) and have offered to pay for our room.  So I'm trying to find the cheapest thing possible because they won't take no for an answer and neither they nor Michelle's parents want us in a hostel.  So, EasyHotel in Earls Court it is.  (My parents can't stay there because there's no elevator - and there's no way my quintuple-bypass-surgery-surviving dad can climb stairs with suitcases.)

The thing that grinds my gears is that we've had TWO conversations with them in the span of 3 weeks before today.  They never once mentioned or even hinted that it would be a problem.  If they would have, I would have had more time to look up hotel options.  And we probably would have gotten better rates for booking in advance.  Not to mention, we fly this Friday!  There are a million other things to do!

ARGH. 

My parents are livid.  My uncle in Ireland's going to blow a gasket when he hears of this.  This just... isn't done in south asian families. 

Instead, you go out of your way and take the sofabed yourself, giving your guests the master bedroom.  And it's always reciprocal.  You do this for family and friends of family.  It's singlehandedly the biggest reason I've been able to travel as much as I have.  And we always return the favor.  I can't think of one time we've turned someone away in the 10 years we've been living in this house.  Instead it's been us taking a trip to LA, only to have my cousins stay with us a month a few year later.  Or family friends staying with us in the Middle East, and us staying with their daughter in Germany.  Or my grandfather's best friend visiting us from Ottawa only for us to drive right back up to his place two weekends later.  Or us going to Long Island and having over those friends for three weeks next May.  You do this kind of thing for families you've known for 30 years, and have kept in touch with even though you've moved to 4 different countries on 3 different continents in that time.  You don't tell them to stay in a fucking hotel.  You just don't. 
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Current Music: The Frames - Downhill from Here
 
 
srahman24
27 June 2009 @ 06:31 pm
Have any of you listened to the France '94 Frames boot I put up a while ago?  I just got around to it and... it's horrible!!  I haven't gotten past the first 5 songs - the sound levels are all crazy, and it sounds like the CD's completely scratched because the songs are all choppy. 

Is it just me, or has that been happening to everyone?

I'll have to see about getting another copy of it, because that's just... not fair.  I'm sorry :(

The Grafton St. '93 one sounds good though (I'm only 2 songs in at this point, but it sounds okay)
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Current Music: The Frames - The Dancer
 
 
srahman24
26 June 2009 @ 11:15 pm
Judging from my friends page, this isn't going to go over well with too many people, but I don't get the Michael Jackson hullabaloo.  I get ONTD breaking, but the entire interweb?

I had CNN on in the background for three whole hours today... 95% of it was devoted to "Did Jackson have a drug problem?", "who's to blame?", "stay tuned as we forgo medical experts to have Usher and Deepak Chopra weigh in", followed by "the autopsy details will be released in an hour, stay tuned", "the autopsy details are coming in 20 minutes", "right after this commercial break", "we still don't have the autopsy details but join us after this next break and we'll continue to WASTE YOUR FREAKIN' TIME.  and then join Larry King as Celine Dion and Cher and other self-involved celebrities cry on air in an attempt to make themselves relevant again."

Not once in three hours did they mention anything about the Iranian election.

Iran is on the precipice of a mini-revolution, the Ayatollah was about to be overthrown, and all that was in large part because they actually had global attention.  There was pressure.  There were people paying attention to the throngs of protesters and there were experts and laymen alike validating the position of the protesters from all over the world.  And now... all that is gone in an instant, because Michael Jackson died of natural causes?  Are people really that tunnel-visioned.  In a year or 10 or 50, I cannot imagine it making one iota of difference whether or not the world still has Michael Jackson in it, but an insanely-conservative Iran transforming into a moderate-to-highly-conservative Iran?  That has massive implications.

Not to mention all the crazy shit the White House is pulling right now.  Executive orders for indefinite detentions of terror suspects.  Refusing to release the list of White House guests.  A health care bill that is failing before it even gains any traction.  DUDES, YOU'RE THE LIBERAL PARTY.  You're supposed to be pro-rule of law, and pro-transparency, and pro-people not dying.

I know, I know, this is America and Michael Jackson = American pop icon.  But you know that the people on TV calling him "the biggest star in our generation" will say the EXACT same thing when Madonna or Britney or Kanye or ANY NUMBER OF OTHER PEOPLE pass away.  I'm not trying to negate his influence, he's had like 30-something years of making hits, and breaking barriers, and inspiring an uncountably high number of people, not just in music.  But... for his autopsy results (or lack thereof) to dominate an entire news cycle?  REALLY?!

BTW, I complain about the US but BBC News wasn't any better today.  Even our Bengali news channels were covering this.

Anyways, I'm not ranting at fans of his - I completely get that reaction, I think of something (heaven forbid) happening to any of my music-loves and I get choked up too.  But for this to dominate 24/7 cable news?  Really??  I don't understand that at all.

P.S. I'm not saying the news shouldn't report on it.  Of course they should.  But four hours on the autopsy?!  COME ON NOW.  It wasn't even conclusive, so I imagine we'll have weeks of all this stupid and random speculation and comments from every Tom, Dick and Harry that's ever worked with or met him.

CityTV interviewed a Canadian woman today... why?  Because she had a ticket stub from an MJ concert from 1980-something - the last time he ever performed in Toronto.  They interviewed her for a good 10 minutes on what she thought of a performance from 30 years ago.  THAT'S WORTH REPORTING? 

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srahman24
21 June 2009 @ 02:44 am
Yesterday did not go according to plan.  I missed half the bands I wanted to see and didn't end up getting the wonderful souvlaki I've been craving.  But... it was a really nice night.

Started off with Black Hat Brigade at Yonge/Dundas Square.  That'll mark the third time I've seen them this year.  The worst part about it?  I haven't had nearly enough.  Great set, as usual... though, I did miss the melodicas!  Boys, feel free to never leave those behind again (we missed the first song or two, but I didn't see them anywhere in sight).  I dragged took two friends with me and they both seemed to like it even though I didn't expect either of them to (they're both pop fans). 

I've raved about these guys many times in the last few months so I've run out of new ways to tell you all how much I love them.  They're an intense band - multiple drum sets (!), very loud guitars, and two lead vocals who both have very unique voices.  But every song has it's own hook running through it that is fun and charming.  And live?  Some songs end in this amazing frenzy of sound that swells so big you think you or they or the song itself will burst.  They're amazing.  They're a lot more punk than I (and probably most of you) listen to, but you should give them a chance!

mp3s and my day cont. )

Then came Dan Mangan!  Guys, I love him.  I really, truly am in love with him.  He clearly didn't leave anything behind on that stage (even though he'd almost lost his voice the night before).  It was a really informal set up - they winged the set list and rotated band members - but that just added to his folksy charm.  I said this after the first time I saw him live and I'm just going to copy-paste here: "If we've got anything in common musically and you ever get the chance to see him live, take it."

He's Ray LaMontagne & Glen Hansard & Leonard Cohen & Ryan Adams & Damien Rice & about a thousand other people I'm in love with all rolled into one.  And you know I'm serious when I break out the Glen and Damien comparisons.  I don't throw those around lightly.

There's something at once inherently heartbreaking and hopeful about his voice.  It's rough but tender, and passionate but tempered.  And I know that description doesn't make too much sense but it's the only way I can think to describe how layered it is.  He's got a gritty voice, but his lyrics are poetic and delicate and laced with more experience and wisdom than you'd expect from a twenty-something.  And he does the same thing Damien does where his voice crescendoes until it just sort of... breaks (think: the end of Cheers Darlin, or Prague).

He ended the set with one of the best set-enders I've seen.  Him and his band came right into the audience.  His trumpeter moved behind our table.  And then he got onto an empty chair RIGHT in front of our table.  I had flasbacks to being front-row for Bell X1 with Paul looming right over us.  He gave us an extended rendition of Robots, with the audience providing background (and sometimes lead) vocals and being his rhythm section with hands, feet, tables, glasses, whatever you could tap out a beat with.  It ended as this great sing a long.  And he was shocked mostly everyone knew the words to this song that hasn't even been released on an album yet (it was on an EP earlier this year though). 

I have to say, as much as I love the way you can sample new talent at music festivals... I'm tired of 45 minute sets with him!  I want a headlining show.  He's got a new CD coming out in August and I'm hoping that, at the very least, a proper cross-Canada tour will follow.  Law school be damned, I'll be there with bells on.

Seeing as how last night's vids (including one of the aforementioned sing a long for my lovely Esther who I missed something fierce during his entire set) are still uploading onto youtube, have this one from the first time I saw him.  I defy you not to fall head over heels.
 
 
 
Current Music: The Black Keys - The Wicked Messenger
 
 
srahman24
19 June 2009 @ 12:25 am
I'm sorry I haven't been around too much commenting or posting lately.  I wish I could say I've had exciting plans keeping me busy.  But mainly, it's been lots of indecision and laziness.

I didn't go to the Lisa Hannigan show.  It was going to cost $200.  For Damien Rice or The Frames (if I wasn't going to Europe, I would so go to this), I would have done it in a heartbeat.  But Lisa's the next little step down from that (with Bell X1, Iron & Wine, The Swell Season, Snow Patrol).  And now that I'm actually booking my Europe flights/trains, I'm finally starting to realize just how expensive that trip is going to be.  So, I couldn't quite justify that much money on one night. 

Now the plan is to catch her in Ireland.  Probably on the 10th in Galway (also, that'll give me an excuse to see Galway).  And now I'll be going to see Madeline Peyroux on the 15th as well.  I tried to figure out how to buy my Ghent jazz festival ticket too (for Jamie Cullum and Melody Gardot - both are playing in Toronto before I leave, but tickets are super expensive), but my limited (read: no) training in Dutch is making this complicated.  I'll go looking for a phone number to call later.  But I can essentially do ALL that (plus Mick Flannery on the 9th plus NXNE) for the same cost as the Lisa ticket. 

Speaking of, I've got so many good gigs lined up for tomorrow!  NXNE started this week and is going for the next few days.  If my darling Kim sisters were here, I would have gone for the whole thing.  But (maybe?) on my own, I'll settle for one day and $25.

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Not bad for $25.  Sets usually last about 40-45 minutes.  Then there's Sunparlour Players on the 24th (free in-store at Soundscapes).  I don't think I'll make it to 52 concerts this year, like originally planned.  But I'll definitely have seen 52 different bands, so I'd say that's pretty damn good.

I hope everyone enjoys the rest of the week.  I should have a pretty exciting update on Saturday if I survive my concert marathon tomorrow.  I should get to bed.  I'm also volunteering from 10-4 tomorrow. 

P.S. I am downloading this and I will share.  But... I've got about 3 hours left in the download.  I'll figure out how to get it up on MU for you guys this weekend.

P.P.S. How about THIS for your daily dose of Frames-related SURREALITY.  Good god those judges are annoying though.  "Buck"?  Really?  He's trying to make "buck" happen?
 
 
Current Music: The Cost - The Frames
 
 
srahman24
15 June 2009 @ 04:56 pm
Went out yesterday for the end of Luminato... minus the random bit of rainfall and the spiders, it was a pretty great day.

First we sampled a bit of the 1,000 tastes of Toronto - I definitely have to do this again next year... with a bigger appetite  in hand.  We bought 3 plates ($5 a plate): the lamb kebabs were good, all smokey tasting and juicy, but weren't really worth the wait; chicken biryani was really good with the chicken breast pieces perfectly cooked; but my favorite dish was the last one we had (and the first one saw, weirdly enough) - it was this sweet couscous dish with white raisins, toasted almonds and the most amazing pitted dates.  It kind of tasted like carrot halua, but BETTER. 

If you look at it per dish, it's kind of expensive.  But the experience is completely worth it.  The restaurants involved are usually way out of an average student/recent grad's price range to begin with (I would have loved to try this, and this).  Anyways, I really liked it.  But you have to like outdoor food festivals for this to work.  Also, (a bit of) sunshine would be helpful... but this being Toronto, it started to rain.

Later on in the night we we saw or.. attempted to see... the finale performance from Cirque Du Soleil.  It was free, and the place was PACKED with people.  We had a pretty crappy view to begin with - there was a crazy lady in front of us with a videocamera who kept turning away from the stage to film... the CN Tower.  Because, apparently, she thought the 30+ year structure would sprout legs and run away sometime during the 60 minute performance.

The show was... hmm... parts of it were OMG!AMAZING and others involved lots of people on stage dancing, which, I'm sure was entertaining to everyone who could actually see the stage, but not so much for everyone farther back who was expecting more of an aerial display of acrobatics.  Still, I can't complain considering it was free.  And the music was fantastic. 

We capped off the night by meeting a guy with an adorable English Pug (named Cara)... she was 3 months old and had the softest, bristly fur ever.  And then meandered around the r andom art exhibits at the Harbourfrount - including this screen on the floor that reacted to people walking over it, or even just their shadows.  So at one point a bunch of mini Toronto FC soccer balls came onto the screen and you could wander around the screen kicking them.  Another scene involved lots of random geckos chasing after you wherever you stood.  And there were beach themed ones where the water rippled wherever you stepped.  It was pretty cool.  Kept us entertained for quite a while.

Our night was finally capped off with some bad apple crumble and some really good Kahlua-shot-infused chocolate milkshakes at Mel's.  And I meandered home around 2am.

More photos are up here.

P.S. I've been sort of following the whole Iranian election mess and good god, are CNN's anchors always that bad?  The correspondants are fine, but the lady in the yellow blazer from around 1pm today was horrible. 

Also, I didn't know this before but 60% of Iran's population is 28 or younger.  That's 60% of the population born after the last revolution.  That's staggering!  And puts a whole new perspective on the results of the last 'election' (though, for devil's advocate sake, I should point out this - I'm not quite sure what to think about all this madness)

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srahman24
Before NYC I went out to see Black Hat Brigade and it was... strange.  So not my scene at all.  They were fantastic (as they usually are!), but their opening bands were... hmm... interesting.  But I'll give a glowing rec to the headliners.  Zombie City Shake is one of those perfect drinking-on-the-patio-with-friends-on-a-cool-summer's-night kind of songs.  

Then there was a bit of a debacle in NYC when I missed David Ford.  But I did get to see Red Heart The Ticker, who were great.  They were very... Will Oldham-esque, which fit my mood for that night perfectly.  They brought up a friend of theirs who plays the saw.  Which definitely led to a new kind of folk-singer-songwriter sound.

Then yesterday night I went out to a gig and between the last minuteness of getting my friends and I tickets, the venue not knowing when doors would open (even though it said 8:30 on the ticket), and the openers not taking the stage until 10, I thought I'd be in store for some more weird concert luck.  But... it ended up being a really nice night.

My friends loved the band, and I loved the band (thanks Heather for the rec!)... and there's not much more you can ask for... except... maybe... an audience that doesn't fucking talk all throughout the show.  I can't stand it!  It has to be my biggest pet peeve ever.  UGH.  I swear Toronto audiences really suck sometimes.  Especially when they don't know how to hold their liquor.  BUT ANYWAYS...

Local Natives opened up - they got off to a rocky start, but they seemed to get more comfortable on stage as the set went on and their last two songs actually had me wanting more!  And their Talking Heads cover was brilliant.  None of the vocalists are all that strong on their own, but when they all go at it together, it's pretty special.  And the drums!  I'm a complete sucker for bands with multiple drumsets!  It wouldn't hurt them to give the violinist a little more to do though.  They sounded a lot like Bruce Penninsula later on in the set (I mean that as a great compliment).  I just got hold of their Daytrotter Session.  I'll have to keep an eye on them for sure (though, I'm hoping their skinny jeans & plaid shirt phase is over by the next time I see them)

The guys (and gal) we went to see were Blind Pilot.  And oh my, they were good.  The lead vocalist is adorable - he does the same thing Gentleman Reg does, where he sings on his tiptoes.  It's charming.  He's also one of the most softspoken frontmen I've seen - while singing his voice carries like you wouldn't believe... but during the banter?  I was front row and I had a hard time hearing him.  But he's sweet, he seemed genuinely glad to see people singing along even though the album.. hmm... I actually don't know if the album's been officially released here yet? 

Oh and one of them played a harmonium!  I hope this musicians-using-indian-instruments-trend keeps going, I love it.  The collection of instruments was pretty great: harmonium, trumpet, double bass (someone screamed out "nice cello" during the gig.. sigh), ukulele, guitar, harpsichord, drums (two sets of drumsticks for one song), banjo, and xylophone (there are 6 of them in the band, rotating instruments).

Overall, I highly recommend them.  They're perfect fun summer indie music. 



P.S. There's been a wrench thrown into my Lisa-Artist's Den plans.  My date isn't free.  So... hmm... I don't know if it's worth it to trek all the way down there on my own!  See... this is what happens when you get front row seats for The Swell Season, Iron & Wine, and Ray LaMontagne.  All your concert!karma gets used up.  Sigh.  No one on here (21+ I'm afraid) would want to come to Jersey on the 17th, would they?
 
 
srahman24
10 June 2009 @ 01:52 am
I don't mean to rub it in for everyone still in school and/or currently working, but this whole having-nothing-to-do thing is pretty great. 

I spent most of the day sleeping - you never really realize the extent to which your own bed is the MOST COMFORTABLE PLACE EVER until you leave it for an extended period of time - and then went out to catch up with a friend who's living the most amazingly surreal life.  It's scary for me (I'm definitely more of a planner), but she's happy and having fun and I'm a wee bit jealous.  But then... I think of my comfortable bed, and I'm sated :P

It was a wonderful evening though.  Perfect extension of my post-trip carefreeness.  I never really realize how much I miss her until I see her after such a long time. 

I also woke up to the best piece of mail today.  Some of you who are reading this will be made very, very happy over the next few days (see: icon). 

And I'm slowly sifting through my photos from NYC.  I took... a lot.  More than I needed.  But some of the pics came out really nicely.



Me in The Hamptons, courtesy of my lovely friend Michelle.
 
I generally hate going to the beach (all that sunshine!  blech!) but this beach was pretty perfect. 

It wasn't deserted, but definitely wasn't packed, and the waves were mesmerizing.  They got pretty high too.  I was standing with just my toes dipped into the water and then out of nowhere, WHOOSH, and before I knew it, the bottom of my dress was soaked.  But during our trip, I was probably most at zen during that moment up there.  I hate just lying on the beach... but standing so close to the water's edge that you can feel mist all over you from the waves crashing into the shore is heavenly. 

 
P.S. I don't know if the food is ever really worth it but... Swiss Chalet makes a mean B52 Coffee.  Seriously.  Try it. 

P.P.S. I'm REALLY in love with Andrew Bird's new album.  I picked it up in NYC (at 50% off!) and driving home tonight after that great evening with the windows all the way down and his violin blaring was sheer bliss.  And I will now devote the next little while to tracking down a copy of the bonus disc for the album.
 
 
Current Music: Not a Robot, but a Ghost - Andrew Bird
 
 
srahman24
08 June 2009 @ 02:37 pm
NYC was a blast but... it's nice to be back in my own bed. 

I slept for most of it, but from what I did managed to gather, our homeward bound bus basically flew across the highway and broke all kinds of records for driving-at-ungodly-speeds-without-killing-anyone.  I'm convinced our driver was using an invisibility cloak over the bus or something of the sort because there's no way he didn't get stopped for a ticket otherwise.  In any case, whatever he did, I appreciated it.  It got me home and napping comfortably almost an hour and a half earlier than expected. 

There are many stories and musings to share but I'll have to save that for after lunch, when I can share some of my 50 million photographs.

I missed you lot.  There were moments in the trip that reminded me of pretty much everyone here.  But we'll get to that later (after I've reviewed my notes).

NYC sometimes feels like it's on a different planet all on it's own, which is both good and bad.  But at least this time, I found a few oases to escape off to.  I'll have to keep them in mind for next time.  Oh yes, not even 24 hours after coming home, I'm already looking forward to NYC trip #4.  For one thing, Karen and Alyssa, I still need an afternoon (at the very least) with both of you! 

Alright, my stomach's grumbling something fierce.  I'll be back again soon once I've quieted it.

<3

P.S.  I'll be doing some major friends list catching up soon, but let me know if I've missed something big!  [info]twirls , I hope there are Mar/Liam updates to be found somewhere!

 
 
srahman24
04 June 2009 @ 11:38 pm
I'm currently typing on the computer to a soundtrack of exploding grenades and machine gun fire rages on behind me courtesy of violent video game #5938 that's been played over this week.  It's... well... I prefer the sound of the sirens and honking taxicabs outside.

Today we got off to a really late start (noon!  my god!  I got like 11 hours of sleep!  I don't even get that much sleep at home!) and went out for brunch.  Then off to the Top of the Rock!  I went to the Empire State Building the first time I was in NYC... it was breathtaking to see the city that never sleeps from that vantage point at 1am (that day was insane).  This time, I thought it be great to see the city from the same sort of viewpoint during the daylight but... it was the most overcast day we've seen all week.  So that worked out well. 

and... cut )

Tomorrow we're heading to The Hamptons.  Then Saturday hopefully I'll get to see Alyssa and The Strand, before heading back to Long Island to have dinner with some family friends.  I also want to spend a little time in the churches by 30 Rock, but I have a feeling I might have to do that on my own. 

Anyhoo... I should go.  My comfy PJs are calling.  I hope everyone's doing well and having fun and if you get even a teeny tiny morsel of sunshine, ENJOY IT!  You don't know how lucky you are.



P.S. I should mention all The Office merch I picked up today.  A tote bag for $5 (!) and a great Dunder Mifflin t-shirt.  Pretty please with all that, I gotta say.

 
 
srahman24
03 June 2009 @ 10:35 pm
So I've been in NYC for 3 days or so now and it's been fun!  Strange, but fun!  I'll have a proper post about it when I get home.  For now though, some of the highlights:

semi-rambly bullet points )

I'm sure there's been more but... it won't come back to me until I go through my photos. 

I think I may be getting on my friends' nerves with my general travelling style but... hmm... I don't know, this is how I do things.  I'm not a rest and relaxation kind of traveller.  It drives me crazy to be in a hotel room (or apartment, in our case) while the city is thriving on the other side of the wall just waiting to be explored.  My friends are working full time right now though, whereas I haven't been for the last few weeks, so I'm in less need of R&R than they are.  My first trip to NYC involved a day with: Cathedral of Saint John the Divine, Columbia University, The Natural History Museum, picnic in Central Park, The Met, Wall Street/WTC Site, Staten Island Ferry, Empire State Building... versus one day this trip which involved: NHM, Belvedere Castle/Central Park, cable car to Roosevelt Island (which was very cool and will be saved for another post)

We all have very different travel styles.  BUT I'm having a blast.  And I do love the friends I'm travelling with.  And we've had some pretty great moments - most involving stupid things I've said/suggested, but oh well :P

We're also catsitting a kind of crazy, bi-polar cat.  But he's adorable when he's not being completely freaked out by us.

Keep your fingers crossed so that we'll get some sunny weather (a rare occurance in NYC, apparently?) and can actually get out to The Hamptons and the beach!

Hope everyone else is having a great week too!

 
 
Current Location: Upper East Side!
 
 
srahman24
31 May 2009 @ 12:53 pm
NYC!  

I should have made this post yesterday but... I'm off to New York for a week!

Currently driving through the barren wasteland that is Rochester, then off to Syracuse, then Manhatten!

So I guess this is my I'll be on hiatus post. Hope everyone has a fantastic week!

<3

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srahman24
29 May 2009 @ 01:36 pm
So, the shock and anger over what happened has started to come down.  I helped clean up yesterday and today, but our pawn shop search has yielded nothing so far.  There's just so much going on right now, I feel as if my head's spinning.  Not all of it's bad, some of it's great, but it's just... a lot to handle all at once.

First my aunt's mess, and now I've got a cousin who's just moved here that I need to show around, and an old university friend of my dad's is in town too, and then I've got to pack in a ton of BFF time over the next two days because it seems like we'll get a grand total of a three days together this summer between her trips and mine.  

And never mind the personal stuff, the world at large is on overdrive.  There was a disastrous cyclone in Bangladesh, so we've had to get in touch with everyone there; the new SCOTUS appointee was named (exciting!  I don't know much about her, but all of the naysayer's arguments have been unbelievably weak and idiotic); North Korea's gone banana's; boys are being elected prom queen in California (<-- *thumbs up*); Jon and Kate's marriage is imploding (argh.  I don't even watch the show, but they're ONTD's obsession of the week); and so on and so forth.

Things will quiet down, in a way, when I head to NYC next week.  I haven't even started to pack.  It seems like it'll be pretty damn hot next week, so many many dresses will be involved.  Which should make things easier.  Anyways, I'll have to worry about that on Saturday (we leave on Sunday). 

And we have so little actually planned (very unusual for me) but... I just found out David Ford is going to be at The Living Room on Thursday!  He's the one who opened for Bell X1 when we saw them last year.  If I can convince my friends to go, that should be a great night for only $10.  I'll force Michelle to listen to him when I drive us down for the Black Hat Brigade concert later tonight.

But all that's for later - for now, I'm going to get dressed and then see the BFF for Up and an early dinner.
 
 
Current Music: Basia Bulat - The Pilgriming Vine
 
 
srahman24
25 May 2009 @ 03:27 pm
It's been a busy last few days, but I'll have all of tomorrow blissfully free with absolutely nothing in my schedule but to catch up with all of you

I've been skimming through everyone's entries and it seems like I've missed quite a lot! 

I hope everyone's doing well though ♥
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srahman24
21 May 2009 @ 01:16 am
Saturday: Angels & Demons -- oh my god, the thoughts that flooded my head everytime Ewan McGregor was on screen were sinful.  He made for one hell of a sexy priest.  Especially near the end.  The movie's a lot better than the actual story - if you suspend belief (Dan Brown really is a horrible writer), don't go in expecting something philosophically profound, and oogle at Ewan McGregor in a not quite Kosher way then I imagine you'll enjoy this movie pretty damn well.  It's a good action-ish flick.

some ramblings about the movie, no real spoilers )


Sunday: flower shopping with my mom for our garden - we picked up some bright red, yellow and orange gerber daisies and these lovely bluebells!  I'm so excited about the bluebells.  They're the sweetest lilac-blue color.

Monday: lunch with family friends (there may be a million reasons why I hate being South Asian, but the food is never going to be one of them), then fireworks with real friends (happy belated birthday, Queen Victoria!).  It was freezing, and we were all decked out in gloves and sweatshirts, but it was lovely.  Sound of the waves crashing at the beach, warm sun shining (for a few measly minutes at least), unbelievably good fireworks, a hike back to the subway that left me buzzing with energy until well after I got home... twas a good night.

two pictures )
 
Tuesday: Window shopping on Queen West - I found the most amazing Badgley Mischka dress.  The minute I can afford to blow $995 on a dress (yeah, you read that right), I'm so buying this dress and never taking it off.  Also, went into a Dufflet Bakery and oh my god, their raspberry/dark chocolate mousse pyramid is heavenly.  Also went for a slightly-more-than-I-can-afford lunch at Terroni - had this incredible oyster mushroom & arugula salad in one of the cutest restaurant patios I've been to. 

Wednesday: Lazy morning breakfasting with fresh mangoes and strawberries on a sunny patio, then lunch with family friends, then dinner with the always charming Kim sisters in their incredibly charming house.  Yummy pasta, great wine, Sam Bean, sunset, candles, bubble blowing, and generally wasting away a few hours with not a care in the world.  I highly recommend it.  Also, I fucking love driving with the windows down on a late spring night when there aren't any other cars on the road and green lights seem to last for months.  I took an extra long route home.  I came home more zen than I've been in a long time.

ETA: LOL forever over the American Idol finale.  I didn't watch it, but I hear it brought some serious WTF moments.

thursday - monday plans )

Holy crap, I'm not going to be able to keep this up all summer but for now... it's a ton of fun.

And lastly, I don't really watch The View but I did catch this the other day: Whoopi Goldberg calling Glen Beck a lying sack of dog mess to his face.  I could have kissed her.  I don't understand how that horrible excuse for a human being actually has fans.  Anyways, that moment made me happy.  The look on his face - as if you could actually see his balls shriveling up into raisins out of embarrassment - was priceless.

P.S. I saw the premiere of Glee and... it was... good.  I won't be dying with anticipation all summer waiting for the rest of it, but I'll keep an eye out.  I have a feeling it'll get old, fast.  Characters that quirky are... hmm... they work better in movies for me.  But football dude is cute, and it does star Wendla from Spring Awakening (oh god that show was good), so those are 2 reasons to keep watching.  I already know I'm going to hate the cheerleading coach though.  Also, the wife. 
 
 
Current Music: Mumford and Sons - Liar
 
 
srahman24
14 May 2009 @ 05:55 pm
Say what you will about Kris Allen, but he's the only one in that stupid "competition" who's been trying to stay relevant.  Falling Slowly, then Kanye West.  I may hate Kanye, and may not understand why he's such a star, but it'd be pretty idiotic to argue that he's not one. 

AI rant )

I held out so well this season.  Refusing to get wrapped up in this.  And now, right before it all ends and the world's ears can collectively stop bleeding, I care enough to get this angry.  I don't get why I keep watching.  Stupid lack of self-restraint.

Also, I'm blaming it on the fact that I've been sick  :(  December and May.  Twice a year, like clockwork, I come down with a cold or the flu or something that makes my body go haywire.

Sunday I spent the entire night sniffling and sneezing, and it hasn't gone away since.  Yesterday I had an insane fever and basically spent the entire day in bed sleeping.  Today at least I can hold my head up for more than 10 minutes at a time.  And my fever's come down.  Of course, this was after my nightime medicine knocked me out for about 12 hours.

But tomorrow I'll have to take as many daytime Tylenol's as is medically safe and actually head outside.  I need to get my return flight sorted out.  I found a Glasgow - Toronto flight that's $350, but I'll need to get an International Youth Card first.  So, here's hoping I can do that tomorrow.  Luckily, I have some passport sized pictures lying around so I won't have to retake them while I look like a drugged, bleary eyed, Rudolph.

For now... I'm going to lie down.  And put on some Fleet Foxes BECAUSE MY TICKETS JUST ARRIVED IN THE MAIL!  Good god they were expensive, BUT I'M GOING TO SEE FLEET FOXES!  10th row center!  I'm pretty damn excited!  And it'll be the day after I get home from Europe. 

SUMMER OF YES, HERE I COME.

P.S. I need dates for the following, who's interested?

June 11: Luminato - German silent horror film fest with Final Fantasy
June 12: Blind Pilot  (Karla?  Yes?  Your schedule's a little crazy this summer, but it should be a good gig!)
 
 
Current Music: Snow Patrol - What Can I Do (the corrs cover)